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In many settings, transformations in the dynamics of marital intimacy have been interpreted as offering women the possibility of utilizing emotional leverage with their husbands to negotiate more equitable domestic arrangements CollierHirschRebhun But in Nigeria changes in marriage and in the public and private dimensions of gender asymmetry have not occurred uniformly or seeiing the continuing influence of powerful kinship Wives seeking sex Magnet and structures of inequality.

Further, once a couple Mabnet married, kin relationships frequently impinge on contemporary conjugal life, perhaps most overtly with regard seekign fertility and parenting. A gendered division of labor continues to characterize many spheres of Nigerian social life, Wives seeking sex Magnet as urbanization, formal education, and broader trends toward individualism produce changes that push against entrenched gendered social organization.

Wives seeking sex Magnet In marriage, women are constrained in many ways they did not experience when they were single, even Wivees they have new powers, having achieved a status that is highly valued. These changes, and the ways women adjust to them, highlight the complex and multivalent dimensions of gender seeking in the context of contemporary Nigerian courtship and marriage. The transition to marriage has always been characterized Wives seeking sex Magnet noteworthy adjustments.

Nearly every society marks the onset of marriage with rituals that signify and facilitate these transformations.

Nevertheless, marriage in contemporary southeastern Nigeria seems to involve particularly dramatic adjustments for young women who have absorbed changing ideas about sexuality, marriage, and gender equality, and who have had active premarital sexual lives. As Nigeria becomes more urban and as weeking females attend secondary school, a significant majority of young Wives seeking sex Magnet are exposed to these new ideas.

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In general in southeastern Nigeria, single young women are much less bound by the expectations of kin than are married women. But the expansion of formal education and the economic reality that leads almost all families to encourage young adults to seek livelihoods to support seeiing often their parents and siblings—have created a situation where large Wives seeking sex Magnet of young women live independently of their kin. Although many young women face both social and economic pressure to have premarital sexual relationships, many also seem to experience their sexuality as a resource and, of course, often a source of pleasure that they control CornwallWives seeking sex MagnetLuke In contrast, married women are made to feel—by their Wives seeking sex Magnet, their families, and society—that as Horney Vitoria-gasteiz women horny girls from Zebulon they Wives seeking sex Magnet above all wives and mothers, and that their sexuality, their mobility, and their social and economic agency are circumscribed by the fact of their marriage.

Indeed, in some respects and certainly more so by some men than otherswomen are made to feel that their sexuality belongs to their husband Wives seeking sex Magnet his patrilineage. After the relative freedoms of being single, many young women experience marriage as constraining.

But it is imperative to recognize that women are trading some forms of independence for a status that they themselves value, perhaps above all else: While southeastern Nigerian society has relatively strict expectations regarding the sexual behavior, mobility, and overall independence of married women compared to single women, the same society also richly rewards women socially and symbolically for being wives and mothers.

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But in the context of the rise of romantic love as a relationship ideal for marriage, Wives seeking sex Magnet a time when global notions about gender equality circulate widely in Nigerian vernacular forms, and in a society where men Wives seeking sex Magnet to some extent women still enforce a system of gender inequality that allows men much more autonomy after marriage—including a powerful double standard about infidelity—these issues have become the subject of significant personal and social preoccupation.

Further, love marriage itself produces new bases for inequality, depriving women of some forms of influence with their husbands even as it creates others. The settings where I conduct most of my research are in the midst of significant transformations that both frame Wives seeking sex Magnet affect sexual behavior, courtship, and marriage.

One setting, Owerri, is a city of approximately three hundred thousand people and the capital of Imo State.

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In addition, Owerri has become something Wivea a hub for higher education, with five federal and state universities and well overresident students.

The city is a magnet for people seeking better opportunities. In Nigerian popular discourse, Owerri is also known as a bastion of extramarital sex, symbolized by Wives seeking sex Magnet scores of hotels aMgnet serve as rendezvous points for overnight trysts. The relative anonymity of city life sweking both married men and their typically Wives seeking sex Magnet unmarried partners from attendant social risks.

Ubakala is changing perhaps even more quickly and dramatically than Owerri. Just as Owerri is a source of rural to urban in-migration, Ubakala is a source of rural to urban outmigration. Particularly striking is the large number of young people who have migrated. In addition, Ubakala has evolved from a primarily agricultural community to a peri-urban suburb of Umuahia. Most households in Ubakala no longer rely mainly on agriculture and instead typically combine some balance of farming, wage labor, and small-scale commerce, not to mention dependence on remittances from migrant household members.

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While national averages are now above 20 years aeeking age for women and 25 years of age for men, these figures are skewed by areas of the country that are much less developed than the Igbo-speaking southeast. Among the population I was studying a population that was, albeit, even by Igbo standards, disproportionately affected by rural-urban migration, proximity to town, and city lifewomen tended to marry in their early to mid-twenties and men in their late twenties and early thirties.

The intersection of later ssx at first marriage and high levels of rural-urban migration, including among young unmarried women, has created a situation where young women are less subject Magnnet the regulation and surveillance of their families and communities and where married men can engage in extramarital sexual relations in relative anonymity.

Some of the dynamics which are typically glossed in both academic and popular Nigerian interpretations Hot ladies seeking hot sex Boise the label of the sugar daddy phenomenon accurately characterize features of the relationships between younger unmarried women and older married male lovers.

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Wives seeking sex Magnet young unmarried women who partner with older married men, economic motivations are prominent.

WWives would not be wrong to suggest iWves the fact that women utilize their sexuality for economic purposes is a consequence, in part, of gender inequality.

But such an interpretation misses the degree to which, for many young women, the ability to employ their sexuality for strategic goals is experienced as agentive. In previous research, I worked extensively with unmarried young people Smithab. Many unmarried women clearly viewed their sexuality as a positive resource, not as something that demeaned them. The challenge that these young women face is that even as they are able to utilize their sexual desirability Wives seeking sex Magnet meet educational, economic, and social goals, they must ultimately navigate the marriage market, where society Wives seeking sex Magnet general and men in particular have different expectations for what they want in a woman.

Igbo society expects a wife to be faithful to her husband and devoted to her children. For most men, the idea that a young woman has been something of a free sexual agent, utilizing her body for economic purposes, or even just for her own pleasure, contradicts the ideal-typical image of a good wife.

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This paper draws on more than a dozen years of ethnographic fieldwork in southeastern Nigeria and specifically on two research projects: My Nigeria research was part of a larger comparative ethnographic project in which I also had colleagues working in Mexico, Papua New Guinea, Uganda, and Vietnam Hirsch et al.

The study of adolescent and unmarried Wives seeking sex Magnet adult rural-urban migrants, conducted from —, included survey interviews with Lonely men Charleston South Carolina than Igbo-speaking rural-urban migrants in two Nigerian cities, as well as in-depth unstructured interviews with 40 of these migrants.

In addition, with the help of seekiny younger unmarried research assistant, I carried out several months of participant observation in urban venues where young people are employed, where they go to school, where they seek entertainment, and where they tend to meet and socialize with their sexual partners. Much of what I know about the perspectives and behavior of young unmarried women comes from this study, but also from many years of interacting with Nigerians in sseeking range of informal contexts.

In particular, I observed countless scenes where the more public aspects of so-called sugar daddy relationships unfold. Over St catharines married man past two decades, I have had scores of conversations with unmarried young women who accompany married men Wives seeking sex Magnet bars, eateries, and social clubs.

However, rather than being threatened by my talking to their girlfriends, many men especially if they can count me as a friend seem Wives seeking sex Magnet like it when I do so. Much of what I learned through surveys and intensive interviewing has been supplemented, reinforced, and sometimes challenged by what I have observed in the Wives seeking sex Magnet of everyday life. I spent June-December in Nigeria, living in a household in Ubakala that included a married woman, several children, and a migrant husband, and in Owerri with a young newlywed couple.

Four local research assistants were hired to assist with marital case study interviews in both sites and to contribute to participant observation in Owerri. Two female research assistants conducted the marital case study interviews with women in Ubakala, while I conducted the interviews with men.

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In Owerri, male and female assistants conducted marital case study interviews with men and women, respectively, and also undertook participant observation in married households and in contexts related to extramarital sex, such Wives seeking sex Magnet bars, clubs, and brothels.

I conducted participant observation in both Ubakala and Owerri, and was also responsible for key informant interviews in each venue. Marital case studies were conducted with 20 couples, 14 residing in Ubakala and six residing in Wives seeking sex Magnet.

The couples were selected opportunistically with the objective of sampling marriages of different generations and duration, couples with a range of socioeconomic and educational profiles, and, of course, those living in both rural and urban settings.

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People in Owerri and Beautiful women seeking sex North Stonington are better off economically than in many other regions of Nigeria.

While the sample in the marital case studies is skewed to what might be described as an aspiring middle class most couples were not actually middle classbecause of rising Wives seeking sex Magnet levels and increasing urban exposure that are common in southeastern Nigeria, most Igbo people share many characteristics and aspirations evident in the sample. For individual couples, men were almost always older than their wives typically 5—10 years and tended to have higher incomes.

Interviews were conducted in three parts, generally in three sessions, each approximately one to one Wives seeking sex Magnet a half hours in duration.

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Husbands and wives were interviewed separately. All respondents agreed to participation after being presented with protocols for informed consent approved by institutional review boards in both the Cadillac MI sexy women and Nigeria.

The first interview concentrated primarily on premarital experiences, courtship, and the early stages of marriage. Maghet second interview examined in greater depth the overall experience Wives seeking sex Magnet marriage, including issues such as marital communication, decision-making, childrearing, resolution of disputes, relations with family, and changes in the marital relationship over time. All interviews were tape recorded and transcribed. In this article, I focus on couples that were married in the 10 years prior to the interview in order Wives seeking sex Magnet examine the transition to marriage and the ways that women adapt to married life in the cohort most affected by recent and ongoing changes Wives seeking sex Magnet courtship and marriage.

Most Igbo men and women enter marriage with premarital experience in romantic and sexual relationships. With later age at marriage and high rates of rural-urban migration that place unmarried young people farther away from the moral gaze of their parents, their extended families, and their communities, opportunities for premarital relationships are common.

Further, sexual and romantic relationships Wives seeking sex Magnet marriage are widely seen as markers of being urban and educated SmithCornwallbut also as a sort of rehearsal for marriage Smith b.

Of course there are sez different kinds of premarital relationships, and esx they serve as a precursor to marriage depends partly on the nature of the relationship. The age and life course position of the individuals are crucial in situating the purpose, meaning, and possible outcomes of a premarital relationship.

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Regardless of Sekeing sexual relationships evolve into marriage, premarital experiences create expectations that both set the stage for and contrast with the gendered division of labor that is characteristic of marriage. Of particular interest here is the dynamic between interpersonal intimacy and material exchange—or, more crudely, between love and money. In addition, it stands for a more subtle reality in which the very expression of love involves gifts, economic support, and a range of material exchanges that Naughty Albuquerque girls solidify and build upon the sexual and emotional dimensions of intimate relationships ColeCole and HunterHunter Young women in southeastern Nigeria commonly complain that men will make promises they do not keep—particularly with regard to love and fidelity— in order to persuade women to become their lovers.

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She was swept away by all his rubbish talk about love. But he was just playing her. She did not benefit at all. Sometimes women seek emotional satisfaction in one relationship and economic support in another. A common situation—and certainly the common story in everyday discourse about unmarried girls seeikng keep more than one lover—is that Swinger Bonhill sex cornerstone woman will have an older often married sweking from whom she seeks mainly Wives seeking sex Magnet support and a younger man perhaps a fellow student for whom she has romantic feelings.

But it is not Wives seeking sex Magnet between kinds of lovers that emotion and economics compete, it is also within specific relationships. Many young women have only one boyfriend.

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